Skill

Shows Initiative and Independence

Child starts interactions and activities on their own, makes choices, and works independently for growing stretches of time.

Ages 6–60 months

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Why it matters

Initiative is the engine of self-directed learning. It starts when an infant initiates a game with a caregiver or points to a wanted toy, and grows into a preschooler who chooses an activity, gathers what they need, and plans a play scenario. Children who take initiative experience themselves as capable agents, which fuels motivation and independence across every domain.

Builds toward this milestone

  • demonstrates emerging initiative in interactions, experiences, and explorations. — Head Start ELOF
  • demonstrates initiative and independence. — Head Start ELOF

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What mastery looks like

  • Initiates interactions or shared activities with adults and peers.
  • Makes choices and communicates preferences to adults and other children.
  • Independently gathers the things needed to start or finish a self-chosen task.

How to observe it

  • Does the child begin an activity without being told, or wait to be directed?
  • When given an open choice, can the child decide and act on a preference?

Accessibility

  • Display choices as pictures or objects so every child can select independently.
  • Arrange materials on low, open shelves so children can gather what they need themselves.

Activities

Evidence