Early Atlas

Activity

Gentle Hands Puppet Practice

Using a friendly puppet, children rehearse what to do instead of grabbing or hitting, practicing words and gentle actions during pretend conflicts.

Ages 18–60 months

Inspired by Play-based learning HighScope behavior turn-taking conflict puppets

Supports this milestone

  • manages actions and behavior with support of familiar adults. — Head Start ELOF
  • manages actions, words, and behavior with increasing independence. — Head Start ELOF

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Materials

  • One or two hand puppets or stuffed animals
  • A single shared toy for the puppets to "want"

Steps

  • Introduce the puppet and let it "want" the toy another puppet is holding.
  • Pause and ask the children, "What can puppet do instead of grabbing?"
  • Help the puppet practice words, such as "Can I have a turn?" or "My turn next."
  • Show the puppet using gentle hands and waiting for a turn.
  • Invite children to take the puppet and try the friendly words themselves.

Variations

  • Act out other moments, such as wanting a turn on a swing or in line.
  • Let an older child be the puppet that models the calm response.

Differentiation

  • For toddlers, focus on one word and one gentle action, such as a soft pat.
  • For older preschoolers, talk about how the other puppet felt.

Accessibility

  • Pair each phrase with a simple gesture or sign so all children can join.
  • Keep the group small and the turns short for children who wait with difficulty.

Safety

  • Keep the pretend conflict light and friendly; never let it become a real tussle.

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Evidence

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