Early Atlas

Skill

Attends to Conversations

Child attends to and acknowledges spoken or signed conversation from others.

Ages 36–60 months

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Why it matters

Attending to the comments and questions of others, and showing connection to a conversation, is the foundation for comprehension, turn-taking, and group learning. It signals that the child is tuned in to communication, not just sound.

Builds toward this milestone

  • attends to communication and language from others. — Head Start ELOF

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What mastery looks like

  • Acknowledges a comment or question with a verbal or non-verbal signal, such as nodding, answering, or looking toward the speaker.
  • Sustains attention through a multi-turn conversation or short group discussion without drifting away.
  • Shows ongoing connection to a story or presentation by responding to its content.

How to observe it

  • During a group discussion, does the child stay connected and respond to what others say?
  • When spoken or signed to, does the child use a signal to show they are listening?

Accessibility

  • Signed conversation and attention shown through gaze or AAC count fully as attending.
  • For children who are DLLs, look for attending and acknowledgment in the home language.
  • Reduce background noise and offer a clear view of the speaker's face and hands.

Activities

Evidence

Early Atlas